Sad! Sad!! SAD!!!!
Seems like people in Manipur & Nagaland gone insane and finally fall into the Centre's preplanned trap. What can we expect from people who are living without the basic necessities of surviving? People are killing by the artificial famine caused by the blocked in the NH-53 & 39, only lifeline for the people of Manipur. While some food, drugs and oil land to the valley in Imphal by Air lifting or you can say because of the sympathy of India Govt.
Then here comes the mastermind UCM launching counter blocked to the people in hill area. And our Meira paibi's always using as an instrument by such organisation and using them to restrict people from dispatching goods to Hill region. Our Meira Paibi Ema's need to wake up now...for how long they will let other's to used them as an instrument to execute their Evil workshop...Just like your sons & daughter they also have a stomach to feel hungry...
People in hill region are living without the basic needs of surviving throughout the years. Can anybody thought of how they must be living now? The idea of counter blocked is truly a counter product of a fool's evil mind. If one Muviah is launching agitation for his red carpet visit to his home town, it dos not mean that we should also react in the same manner. they won't be even knowing who is Muviah then why should they bear the consequences of the damage caused by Muviah and his supporters in Manipur.
Seeing the tv chennel's breaking new made me more agitated. Everything is breaking news for India news channel and none of the channel is ready to highlight the plight of lakhs of people in Manipur who are starving from the last 50 days. Politicians are giving big talks everywhere and Muviah still adhere to his stand to visit his home town. Neither Muviah nor politicians care about the people are suffering.
For how long we are going to suffer like this. Why don't centre, Manipur govt. and Nagaland Govt.
Isn't it come to a day people should stand in one side and dose off such leaders amidst us from the world using and playing with our blood and tears?
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Idolising the FALSE HERO!!
Who is called as a HERO?
Some who care for you,
someone who can face the enemy and
save your LIFE?
Who is Muviah? A Naga HERO or a GOD MAN. When I was a kid I read about NSCN (IM) and their powerful comarades who is waging war against India's step mother treatment. I used to admire the gutsy guys from the hill of my state who stand up for those who lives in plight and shadowed by the urban lives. I never thought someday he will be responsible for thrashing the lives of Manipuris? Where has Muviah thrown his revolutionary stand? Is he a false HERO now who is blind folded and sent back to his native place to torture them where he used to stay for the love of his people. Is his real motive to spend his life as a leader of Naga tribe is to revenge agains the attrocities met out by the dominating Meitie communities? If this is the only reason why he has to waste those valuable 50 years to settle the problems with a community living with him in the same satte. How come his revolutionary thoughts are suddenly rap around the ideology of "hate Meities" propaganda only.
I absolutely concerned with the emotions and sentiments of the Naga communities living in Manipur and they should not become a victim of whatever damage Muvaih has cause to the state. The naga brothers and sisers should wake up before it is too late and stop those leaders who are using them as a human shied for his political game. Question is how many naga people freely follow the ideology of Muviah and his dream to form a state called as "Nagalim". Should not it better to call "Muviah-lim" instead of calling "Nagalim".
The statement by NSCN fraction of Khaplanf flashed out claerly that Muviah is a FALSE HERO idiolised few groups of people and not by all. I have some few good friends from Kamjong village of Ukhrul which is known as a NSCN (IM) colonised district in Manipur. Our conversation sometime come to this point. Sometime I asked him do you really wish to be part of Nagaland and are the people willing to Muviah's movement. He said nothing is good for people where a terrorist group rule. Never wish to be part of Nagaland or Nagalim as well as we are so much in a pityful condition because of Manipur Govt.'s ignorence.
It should be accepted by the people and govt of Manipur that the tribal community living in the hilly region are ignored from the years and its our duty to rectify the mistake before it is too late. Before it become a fusion chain reaction and meitie become a target to be balmed all the time. But this will also be worth to note that how much our politiacians both meitie and tribal visit thier constituency after winning the election? They lived a king-sized life in the heart of imphal with all the comforts and let the people die against their will to die out of pitiness.
On the contrary NSCN (IM) anti-meitie statement comment was something to be ignored with a big laugh. Who has really done the atrocities to the people of Manipur by NSCN (IM) is something to be recorded with red mark. The terrorist group using the national highways as a tool to torture the people of Manipur from so many years should not be ignored easily. It's become routine that the student union and the terrorist group joining their hands to block the highway against the law and humanity. In which ground they are saying that there is atrocities are made to Nagas. And where is the naga inhibited area in the whole area? Is there any place in the world which is inhibited by one community only? If it so then it is man -made after the paralyzing the lives of people and deserting them from their home. Is the leader following the footsteps of Hitler who lived in the forgotten centaury and seems to be highly inspired from him, who has committed the crime of genocide of jew people centaury back.
If analyze deeply it’s the terrorist group responsible for making NE state a HELL. It includes both Nagaland, Manipur and whole NE states and disturbing the peaceful lives. Aren't they responsible for the genocide of Kuki tribes in Manipur and can this group claim they are justified in doing all that to form their dream land "Nagaland". The sky is empty and free, if they dream so high for making a land inhibited by only one community then it should only be in the sky...not on the mother earth...
People in Manipur are living without food, drug, oil which are necessarily for a person to survive because of Muviah's red carpet drean to visit his home town. How can he claim that he belong to Manipur anymore when he hates the place. He has no right to visit the place which he has left 40 years back and lived a lavished in Bangkok and Amsterdam.....according to the law also...In the process of peace talk the leader seems to be too lost and forget the humanity. If he really loves naga community then why he is acting blind to his own tribes who are dyeing without food in the hills. Should you all this a sacrifice for your revolution???
You are nothing in the eyes of the Manipuris which includes all communities but a mere terrorist who is blind folded by the Centre and send back to his home to torture his own people for his selfish political gain. If you ever stick to your stand for your people then the whole NE poeple would have raised their hands for you and cheer your homecoming.
Some who care for you,
someone who can face the enemy and
save your LIFE?
Who is Muviah? A Naga HERO or a GOD MAN. When I was a kid I read about NSCN (IM) and their powerful comarades who is waging war against India's step mother treatment. I used to admire the gutsy guys from the hill of my state who stand up for those who lives in plight and shadowed by the urban lives. I never thought someday he will be responsible for thrashing the lives of Manipuris? Where has Muviah thrown his revolutionary stand? Is he a false HERO now who is blind folded and sent back to his native place to torture them where he used to stay for the love of his people. Is his real motive to spend his life as a leader of Naga tribe is to revenge agains the attrocities met out by the dominating Meitie communities? If this is the only reason why he has to waste those valuable 50 years to settle the problems with a community living with him in the same satte. How come his revolutionary thoughts are suddenly rap around the ideology of "hate Meities" propaganda only.
I absolutely concerned with the emotions and sentiments of the Naga communities living in Manipur and they should not become a victim of whatever damage Muvaih has cause to the state. The naga brothers and sisers should wake up before it is too late and stop those leaders who are using them as a human shied for his political game. Question is how many naga people freely follow the ideology of Muviah and his dream to form a state called as "Nagalim". Should not it better to call "Muviah-lim" instead of calling "Nagalim".
The statement by NSCN fraction of Khaplanf flashed out claerly that Muviah is a FALSE HERO idiolised few groups of people and not by all. I have some few good friends from Kamjong village of Ukhrul which is known as a NSCN (IM) colonised district in Manipur. Our conversation sometime come to this point. Sometime I asked him do you really wish to be part of Nagaland and are the people willing to Muviah's movement. He said nothing is good for people where a terrorist group rule. Never wish to be part of Nagaland or Nagalim as well as we are so much in a pityful condition because of Manipur Govt.'s ignorence.
It should be accepted by the people and govt of Manipur that the tribal community living in the hilly region are ignored from the years and its our duty to rectify the mistake before it is too late. Before it become a fusion chain reaction and meitie become a target to be balmed all the time. But this will also be worth to note that how much our politiacians both meitie and tribal visit thier constituency after winning the election? They lived a king-sized life in the heart of imphal with all the comforts and let the people die against their will to die out of pitiness.
On the contrary NSCN (IM) anti-meitie statement comment was something to be ignored with a big laugh. Who has really done the atrocities to the people of Manipur by NSCN (IM) is something to be recorded with red mark. The terrorist group using the national highways as a tool to torture the people of Manipur from so many years should not be ignored easily. It's become routine that the student union and the terrorist group joining their hands to block the highway against the law and humanity. In which ground they are saying that there is atrocities are made to Nagas. And where is the naga inhibited area in the whole area? Is there any place in the world which is inhibited by one community only? If it so then it is man -made after the paralyzing the lives of people and deserting them from their home. Is the leader following the footsteps of Hitler who lived in the forgotten centaury and seems to be highly inspired from him, who has committed the crime of genocide of jew people centaury back.
If analyze deeply it’s the terrorist group responsible for making NE state a HELL. It includes both Nagaland, Manipur and whole NE states and disturbing the peaceful lives. Aren't they responsible for the genocide of Kuki tribes in Manipur and can this group claim they are justified in doing all that to form their dream land "Nagaland". The sky is empty and free, if they dream so high for making a land inhibited by only one community then it should only be in the sky...not on the mother earth...
People in Manipur are living without food, drug, oil which are necessarily for a person to survive because of Muviah's red carpet drean to visit his home town. How can he claim that he belong to Manipur anymore when he hates the place. He has no right to visit the place which he has left 40 years back and lived a lavished in Bangkok and Amsterdam.....according to the law also...In the process of peace talk the leader seems to be too lost and forget the humanity. If he really loves naga community then why he is acting blind to his own tribes who are dyeing without food in the hills. Should you all this a sacrifice for your revolution???
You are nothing in the eyes of the Manipuris which includes all communities but a mere terrorist who is blind folded by the Centre and send back to his home to torture his own people for his selfish political gain. If you ever stick to your stand for your people then the whole NE poeple would have raised their hands for you and cheer your homecoming.
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Midnight Monsoon!!!
Like
Those millions in solitude
He suddenly peep from the leaves of memory
Buried below my earthen heart
As I lay myself on his trusty arms
When the night falls asleep
Like
Those millions in silence
I left living
Under the parent sun who bade his view
No one takes a note on my departure
When the moon was hiding me from them
Like
Those millions in melancholy
I would sing his love songs every midnight
As those disgrace reapers
Calling her lost love
Far aside in the villages
Like
Those millions in heaven
I bathed with the sweet flower petals
He, with a thoughtless smile
Led me to the forest of aphrodisiac...
While the hands of the spring
Made the woods of April bright….
Like
Those million tribes
Celebrating the agony of love
I lost myself within him
I’m no more like those modest flowers
Wither midst the falling dew of shame
I'm now in my crowning hour
Like
Those million lofty flowers
Flaunting nigh in the virgin air
I’m back to those pathless forests
Searching for him again
Across the moonlight plain
When the midnight monsoon wash all my sins!!
Those millions in solitude
He suddenly peep from the leaves of memory
Buried below my earthen heart
As I lay myself on his trusty arms
When the night falls asleep
Like
Those millions in silence
I left living
Under the parent sun who bade his view
No one takes a note on my departure
When the moon was hiding me from them
Like
Those millions in melancholy
I would sing his love songs every midnight
As those disgrace reapers
Calling her lost love
Far aside in the villages
Like
Those millions in heaven
I bathed with the sweet flower petals
He, with a thoughtless smile
Led me to the forest of aphrodisiac...
While the hands of the spring
Made the woods of April bright….
Like
Those million tribes
Celebrating the agony of love
I lost myself within him
I’m no more like those modest flowers
Wither midst the falling dew of shame
I'm now in my crowning hour
Like
Those million lofty flowers
Flaunting nigh in the virgin air
I’m back to those pathless forests
Searching for him again
Across the moonlight plain
When the midnight monsoon wash all my sins!!
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
God of Immodesty!!
I don’t wish to be called as a feminist as I don’t know the deep intention and meaning of a self proclaimed feminist. Why I’m so protective and interested in the subjects related to women would be my personal feeling and not because I want to tag myself with another taboo.
How strong is the God of immodesty? Is it as strong as a volcano which can shake and ruin the world in a second? I’m referring to the comment of a Tehran based Islamic cleric on the immodesty of women being the reason of frequent earthquake.
Well, recent comment of an Iranian cleric on women accusing them responsible for the earthquake has brought up the existence of the God of Immodesty. The TOI news on this issue really enthralled me to read it further and even follow everyday online. This is really miracle news for person like me because some one is claiming for such a forceful power in a woman... I was literally laughing so loudly after reading this news and now I wanted to share about this.
I check the face book campaign call as the “boobquake” by Jennifer Mccreight as reported in TOI. She did a good job. In fact if we should proved that this kind of God man is just good for nothing but terrorizing the world from every angle. On Monday, women from all over world came and show the maximum amount of the cleavage of their breast to nullify his hilarious accusation on women. The cleric blames promiscuous women causing earthquake and factor for losing chastity of a man. Well, well, earthquake did not happen on last week Monday and the sadly the God of immodesty was not as strong as he claimed.
Leaving aside the big world, I wish to come back to my own state and want to map the cheap mentality of some folk of men. Please spare me if I say I can’t digest your thinking. In fact, I can’t do so. I’m not a believer of Mahabharat and Virgin Merry’s story. In Mahabharat, Karna was born to Kunti from her ear and Jesus was born to a virgin woman. Some people read such story and try to apply in real life. Here comes the problem. It has nothing to do with religion but rather with the much question morality and sexuality of women. This is the social set up created by virgin hunter men in the world. Very sadly our own e-pao publishes so many articles dragging into the issues of morality of women. It is not alone the fault of e-pao but for those people who are born as insane and for them there is no medicine to treat the illness.
My question to such moral police is that “who gave you the hell bound right to question a woman for her modesty, character and morality”. Women are not born to become cultural ambassador of a state? Aren’t they human? If you wish to question to other’s then first look at yourself in a mirror. Your face reflection would be enough for you to understand the whole world.
It’s like having no worth work to do in life and just trying to find a space in other’s life so please get a life for you.
Problem with some men folk in our society is that they thought they are bound by divine right to taunt a woman. It may be character, culture, morality, chastity etc. They never thought of existence of such things within them, and perhaps they have abandoned all these from their blood although they want to safeguard in a woman. Women are taught to tolerate and live in a corner from the beginning of this earth and male chauvinists are having fun for so many years celebrating their God given rights & duties. Sadly, every thing has an end and it is now. My article protesting the accusation to NE women hurt the pride of some men and are sending me hate mails. I love hate mails and I’m happy my write up is provocative enough for a person to think and get angry.
Common man, grow up and drink more milk to understand the world. Please don’t teach me with the principle that women can’t climb trees so they are weaker than men. I have destroyed those theories years back from now.
I would like to give a conclusive note to such men that please do mind your own business. We know better how to live our life. It will be shameful if you can really count the no. of NE women who made a successful career here in the metros despite of all the difficulties and critism from all of you and people here for the "chinki effect". Check any MNC and any sector of industry where NE women are not working. You should be proud of it instead of being mean, insecure and just crabbing about their dressing sense and lifestyle. At least they know their responsibility of being a human unlike many lay men in every corners of the locality waiting with their mouths wide open to do bitching.
Women are changed today. Bitching is no more their habit. It’s now the turn of some insecure men folk to do the lip service on morality topic and bitching all the time.
But I say who cares?
How strong is the God of immodesty? Is it as strong as a volcano which can shake and ruin the world in a second? I’m referring to the comment of a Tehran based Islamic cleric on the immodesty of women being the reason of frequent earthquake.
Well, recent comment of an Iranian cleric on women accusing them responsible for the earthquake has brought up the existence of the God of Immodesty. The TOI news on this issue really enthralled me to read it further and even follow everyday online. This is really miracle news for person like me because some one is claiming for such a forceful power in a woman... I was literally laughing so loudly after reading this news and now I wanted to share about this.
I check the face book campaign call as the “boobquake” by Jennifer Mccreight as reported in TOI. She did a good job. In fact if we should proved that this kind of God man is just good for nothing but terrorizing the world from every angle. On Monday, women from all over world came and show the maximum amount of the cleavage of their breast to nullify his hilarious accusation on women. The cleric blames promiscuous women causing earthquake and factor for losing chastity of a man. Well, well, earthquake did not happen on last week Monday and the sadly the God of immodesty was not as strong as he claimed.
Leaving aside the big world, I wish to come back to my own state and want to map the cheap mentality of some folk of men. Please spare me if I say I can’t digest your thinking. In fact, I can’t do so. I’m not a believer of Mahabharat and Virgin Merry’s story. In Mahabharat, Karna was born to Kunti from her ear and Jesus was born to a virgin woman. Some people read such story and try to apply in real life. Here comes the problem. It has nothing to do with religion but rather with the much question morality and sexuality of women. This is the social set up created by virgin hunter men in the world. Very sadly our own e-pao publishes so many articles dragging into the issues of morality of women. It is not alone the fault of e-pao but for those people who are born as insane and for them there is no medicine to treat the illness.
My question to such moral police is that “who gave you the hell bound right to question a woman for her modesty, character and morality”. Women are not born to become cultural ambassador of a state? Aren’t they human? If you wish to question to other’s then first look at yourself in a mirror. Your face reflection would be enough for you to understand the whole world.
It’s like having no worth work to do in life and just trying to find a space in other’s life so please get a life for you.
Problem with some men folk in our society is that they thought they are bound by divine right to taunt a woman. It may be character, culture, morality, chastity etc. They never thought of existence of such things within them, and perhaps they have abandoned all these from their blood although they want to safeguard in a woman. Women are taught to tolerate and live in a corner from the beginning of this earth and male chauvinists are having fun for so many years celebrating their God given rights & duties. Sadly, every thing has an end and it is now. My article protesting the accusation to NE women hurt the pride of some men and are sending me hate mails. I love hate mails and I’m happy my write up is provocative enough for a person to think and get angry.
Common man, grow up and drink more milk to understand the world. Please don’t teach me with the principle that women can’t climb trees so they are weaker than men. I have destroyed those theories years back from now.
I would like to give a conclusive note to such men that please do mind your own business. We know better how to live our life. It will be shameful if you can really count the no. of NE women who made a successful career here in the metros despite of all the difficulties and critism from all of you and people here for the "chinki effect". Check any MNC and any sector of industry where NE women are not working. You should be proud of it instead of being mean, insecure and just crabbing about their dressing sense and lifestyle. At least they know their responsibility of being a human unlike many lay men in every corners of the locality waiting with their mouths wide open to do bitching.
Women are changed today. Bitching is no more their habit. It’s now the turn of some insecure men folk to do the lip service on morality topic and bitching all the time.
But I say who cares?
Friday, April 30, 2010
Having Fun Idiot!!!
Not really!
I’m not really having fun but I want to boost my moral by saying to myself that I’m having fun.
I’m bit down today. Just after I enter the flat, I got to know that electric cooker has been burnt down into ashes while my brother lost in his dream world. No light in the night. I keep fighting with the mosquitoes. The smokes from the coil irritate my eyes and block my nose and now I’m having anti-allergy tablet to stop more harm to me. Wanted to study for exam but need to take a break so just tuning to some old good music and walking in my balcony. The moon was so beautiful yesterday night though I could get a glimpse of amidst the branches of the trees only. These days I wanted to spend time with myself. I miss my hobby of walking in the terrace for hours, singing loud and thinking freely. I wish to bring back that habit again as it makes me so free from everything. After helping brother to complete his homework I just took 10 minutes break and open my book. But God is so great he wants me to spend the night fighting with mosquitoes. Neither I sleep nor do I study. What a waste of time. I wanted to write poems. Words started to pop out in my mind but a call from a friend interrupted my thought.
Well, she saved me from being lost in my world.
I’m too excited as we are going to have a get together tomorrow. I landed in this strange place when I was just 18 year old. Now I could not even find myself within me as the process of regenerating another Chaoba were done so vigorously in the last 9 years. I knew no friends here and had no relative. Uncle dropped me in a PG where no NE stayed. He said you will become more smart and adaptable if you stay with people with different culture. I first struggle begun from folding my bed before going to college as I don’t want my roommate to touch my bed. I learnt a lot from my roommate. She was a topper in St. Stephen College in the same subject Chemistry. She helped me in improving my language problem and subject knowledge. She put me into news reading habit every morning before going to college. I like her a lot and still remember her except her one habit, I can’t tolerate. That was she took bath only once in a week and for that I had to fight with her all the time. But we were too good friend. She even came down to meet me after years in my PG.
I left behind those memories of staying with 7 girls from different states speaking different language and different culture. Then I met my old friends now through one of my relatives and then we all seven girls stayed in one flat and it was like a second world war when we started staying together in the same flat. The ego problem hurt each other and we fought a lot with each other. But we all have a feeling that we all are very honest and most importantly we respect each other despite of many differences between us. After a year of staying together, we have decided to stay separately. That was the time we realize each other’s value and started celebrating togetherness. Celebrating birthday in the middle of the night, dancing to the FM songs till the morning, sharing the story of first crush, and then going for date in the summer vacation in home. That feeling never dies today also. Also, we never missed the flower festival in DU campus. Some people are really irritated with our childish photoshots, loosing amidst the flowers every year. One surprising morning we found our photos clicked by a photographer in the flower festival in the Hindustan times and at that moment we thought we are celebrity….hahah.
Lemis got married this year January. She is the first one who gets married among our gang in Delhi. But we could not fulfill our college time promise to attend in each other’s marriage. It’s very true that promises are made to break only. We planned a lot that we will wear this and that but life has different plan so we couldn’t fulfill our dream. We couldn’t even meet up after her marriage. Yesterday, she suddenly called me up for a get together tomorrow in Lanlei’s place. I got so excited of meeting all of them tomorrow. It would be so nice and I know we won’t be getting enough time for each other’s to update the entire story especially Linda, me and Lanlei.
I’m not really having fun but I want to boost my moral by saying to myself that I’m having fun.
I’m bit down today. Just after I enter the flat, I got to know that electric cooker has been burnt down into ashes while my brother lost in his dream world. No light in the night. I keep fighting with the mosquitoes. The smokes from the coil irritate my eyes and block my nose and now I’m having anti-allergy tablet to stop more harm to me. Wanted to study for exam but need to take a break so just tuning to some old good music and walking in my balcony. The moon was so beautiful yesterday night though I could get a glimpse of amidst the branches of the trees only. These days I wanted to spend time with myself. I miss my hobby of walking in the terrace for hours, singing loud and thinking freely. I wish to bring back that habit again as it makes me so free from everything. After helping brother to complete his homework I just took 10 minutes break and open my book. But God is so great he wants me to spend the night fighting with mosquitoes. Neither I sleep nor do I study. What a waste of time. I wanted to write poems. Words started to pop out in my mind but a call from a friend interrupted my thought.
Well, she saved me from being lost in my world.
I’m too excited as we are going to have a get together tomorrow. I landed in this strange place when I was just 18 year old. Now I could not even find myself within me as the process of regenerating another Chaoba were done so vigorously in the last 9 years. I knew no friends here and had no relative. Uncle dropped me in a PG where no NE stayed. He said you will become more smart and adaptable if you stay with people with different culture. I first struggle begun from folding my bed before going to college as I don’t want my roommate to touch my bed. I learnt a lot from my roommate. She was a topper in St. Stephen College in the same subject Chemistry. She helped me in improving my language problem and subject knowledge. She put me into news reading habit every morning before going to college. I like her a lot and still remember her except her one habit, I can’t tolerate. That was she took bath only once in a week and for that I had to fight with her all the time. But we were too good friend. She even came down to meet me after years in my PG.
I left behind those memories of staying with 7 girls from different states speaking different language and different culture. Then I met my old friends now through one of my relatives and then we all seven girls stayed in one flat and it was like a second world war when we started staying together in the same flat. The ego problem hurt each other and we fought a lot with each other. But we all have a feeling that we all are very honest and most importantly we respect each other despite of many differences between us. After a year of staying together, we have decided to stay separately. That was the time we realize each other’s value and started celebrating togetherness. Celebrating birthday in the middle of the night, dancing to the FM songs till the morning, sharing the story of first crush, and then going for date in the summer vacation in home. That feeling never dies today also. Also, we never missed the flower festival in DU campus. Some people are really irritated with our childish photoshots, loosing amidst the flowers every year. One surprising morning we found our photos clicked by a photographer in the flower festival in the Hindustan times and at that moment we thought we are celebrity….hahah.
Lemis got married this year January. She is the first one who gets married among our gang in Delhi. But we could not fulfill our college time promise to attend in each other’s marriage. It’s very true that promises are made to break only. We planned a lot that we will wear this and that but life has different plan so we couldn’t fulfill our dream. We couldn’t even meet up after her marriage. Yesterday, she suddenly called me up for a get together tomorrow in Lanlei’s place. I got so excited of meeting all of them tomorrow. It would be so nice and I know we won’t be getting enough time for each other’s to update the entire story especially Linda, me and Lanlei.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Jingoism in religion!!
Just got a mail from a colleague enclosing some clippings of MF Hussain Painting elaborately describing step by step...
But the mail provoked me enough to write this post.
In the painting, comparison was drawn by some jingoist as Draupadi was in naked pics and the Prophet's daughter in full cloths..so as the some hindu God in the compromising position but Mother Teressa in Full clothe etc...
The mail ask the people who follow hindu religion to judge themselves as coward for not able to protect their religion.
Religion is a crap and a medium to abuse human and any living organism on the earth. I'm a believer of God, an unseen divine but not a believer of religion.
Common people!! You spent 30 years of your life in getting so many certificates then become who and who of the country and the world but you take a U-turn and started delivering craps based on the religion.
Who has seen God?
That's exactly I want to ask the prophets, clerics, the priest, the God man and the pope.
Who had seen a God in what form? Which God left an image or a 4x60 photo for to this world? Did they say that she wore a Shari/Phanek mayek naiba or drive a tiger or lion. Why being so offenssive about seeing a paint of the God/Goddess in the naked form? Why taking being so defenssive about it? Are we human really a virgin perl from the sea...if the body of a human is a epitome of immodesty then why aren't they burning them off.
The story of Mahabharat narrates the story of Draupadi being sold in the gambling by her husbands then what is the difference of being shown in naked in MF Hussain's painting and his imaginations.
Hussain seems to be understanding rather than we are, about the pain & agony of a women being sold by husbands and the God/Goddess suffering from his believers.
Why are we judging an artist based on his religion.
This is all about the crap created by religious self proclaimed people.
Such mentality shows that India a big country with so many uneducated but literate poeple. They study to get a degree but they are still stick to the old outdated/regressive practices.
Grow up when the time is not too late, time waits for no one!!
But the mail provoked me enough to write this post.
In the painting, comparison was drawn by some jingoist as Draupadi was in naked pics and the Prophet's daughter in full cloths..so as the some hindu God in the compromising position but Mother Teressa in Full clothe etc...
The mail ask the people who follow hindu religion to judge themselves as coward for not able to protect their religion.
Religion is a crap and a medium to abuse human and any living organism on the earth. I'm a believer of God, an unseen divine but not a believer of religion.
Common people!! You spent 30 years of your life in getting so many certificates then become who and who of the country and the world but you take a U-turn and started delivering craps based on the religion.
Who has seen God?
That's exactly I want to ask the prophets, clerics, the priest, the God man and the pope.
Who had seen a God in what form? Which God left an image or a 4x60 photo for to this world? Did they say that she wore a Shari/Phanek mayek naiba or drive a tiger or lion. Why being so offenssive about seeing a paint of the God/Goddess in the naked form? Why taking being so defenssive about it? Are we human really a virgin perl from the sea...if the body of a human is a epitome of immodesty then why aren't they burning them off.
The story of Mahabharat narrates the story of Draupadi being sold in the gambling by her husbands then what is the difference of being shown in naked in MF Hussain's painting and his imaginations.
Hussain seems to be understanding rather than we are, about the pain & agony of a women being sold by husbands and the God/Goddess suffering from his believers.
Why are we judging an artist based on his religion.
This is all about the crap created by religious self proclaimed people.
Such mentality shows that India a big country with so many uneducated but literate poeple. They study to get a degree but they are still stick to the old outdated/regressive practices.
Grow up when the time is not too late, time waits for no one!!
Monday, April 26, 2010
Untitled
Dreams are no longer deem and sad
Birds cherishing
Only the rhythm of my childhood songs
Ah! The soft touch of the grasses on my feet
The naughty gusts of wind playing with my hair
I’m like those flowers in the breeze
That heavenly feeling of freedom…
On the starry nights of April
Resting my head on the lap of my mother
I Share my starry dreams
to the moon,
to the stars
Every night was so enthralled
Looking for the moon & stars
Dancing in the tune of my love songs
No melancholy nights ever wake me up
No dreams scare me for another lost
No sad songs ever echoed into my life…
Today,
I no longer wish
another melancholy night
another nocturnal dream
of you visiting me
Without bothering my existence…
Birds cherishing
Only the rhythm of my childhood songs
Ah! The soft touch of the grasses on my feet
The naughty gusts of wind playing with my hair
I’m like those flowers in the breeze
That heavenly feeling of freedom…
On the starry nights of April
Resting my head on the lap of my mother
I Share my starry dreams
to the moon,
to the stars
Every night was so enthralled
Looking for the moon & stars
Dancing in the tune of my love songs
No melancholy nights ever wake me up
No dreams scare me for another lost
No sad songs ever echoed into my life…
Today,
I no longer wish
another melancholy night
another nocturnal dream
of you visiting me
Without bothering my existence…
A request!!
To all those who visited my blog (those who are not a follower of this blog) please do not drop me comments in another langauge. Mostly, I'm getting comments written in chinease langaue and it's very upsetting that some poeple are sending obscene comments in my blog. If you want to deliver your dirty mind that this is not the suitable page. This page is for myself and contents are limited to my opinion only.
If you want to differ from what I have written then please drop a reasonable argument related to the topic but not some shits. This kind of act just show the pathetic mindset of the people, uncivilised nature and lack of maturity.I'm not affected by such comments.
Mind that I'm not afraid of such threats, I will continue to express my opinion on my page regardless of some of you trying to stop me.
There is no point trying to waste my time. Let me enjoy my freedom of speech and expression as far as it doesn't hurt to the sentiments of anyone...I really know where to draw the limits...
So, no need of sending comments unrelated to the post in the blog..
If you want to differ from what I have written then please drop a reasonable argument related to the topic but not some shits. This kind of act just show the pathetic mindset of the people, uncivilised nature and lack of maturity.I'm not affected by such comments.
Mind that I'm not afraid of such threats, I will continue to express my opinion on my page regardless of some of you trying to stop me.
There is no point trying to waste my time. Let me enjoy my freedom of speech and expression as far as it doesn't hurt to the sentiments of anyone...I really know where to draw the limits...
So, no need of sending comments unrelated to the post in the blog..
Friday, April 23, 2010
IPL more important than BPL?????
Well said and agree that Cricket is religion for India. But it now no longer the sport but CRICK-CAT. When the half of the Indian die devoid of food and minimum cloth to cover from the hitting ray of the sun..India Govt. is trying hard to solve the game of gambling in the highly protected AC rooms.
Like any other religion cricket in India has become abusive and exploitive. The B-grade bollywood heroines who are unsuccessful in their stardom and businessman came down together to launch another religion called as IPL. Sick of it enough. Cricket is no longer a sport to enjoy. But it is more about money, luxury, women and gambling...
I had no problem the cheer leaders jumping & dancing with the half cover clothes unable to cover even the private part in the big stadium, infront of lakhs of spectators but the way they have been portray reminds me of those girls who were hired to dance in "mujra" in front of the kings and his ancestors in the old times, though I witnessed such custom only from the hindi movies. The radio jockey has already bang my ear with announcement like "more music more cricket". I wish to eat some sleeping pill and sleep to tolerate my cab mates and their aggressive talks on cricket in every 3 hours of office journey.
Well, that's my problem of hating something which looses the root and origin while being meaningless of such amendments. That's what cricket is which has no link to sport now. It has link to politics, gambling, women till the filmistan extending up to the ramp, mingling with the models. I wish the govt and the financers give 2% interest to the rest of the sports. It’s so shameful that India can't even enter the world cup. While the other players who pursue other sports end up their career in the police force, naval force and terminate their career unable to show their talent.
Referring to my own state Manipur, sport is just a break free game for us. There won't be a single boy in a family who doesn't know about football or any kind of game. But we live amidst the guns and grenades devoid of proper diet, clothes and facility and can't grow up to the international level. Seeing the cricketers walking on the ramp and advertising as a brand ambassador agitated more.
Above all the loopholes, I'm very proud of the sport persons from Manipur and NE states. Despite of all the difficulties they face including politics and ignorance by the people here they still shine and show their talent to the world....
This is just a hope, remnant with us for looking ahead in the small state like Manipur where the price of the rice is higher than the price of the bullets...
Disclaimer: This is a specific opinion owe to me...
Like any other religion cricket in India has become abusive and exploitive. The B-grade bollywood heroines who are unsuccessful in their stardom and businessman came down together to launch another religion called as IPL. Sick of it enough. Cricket is no longer a sport to enjoy. But it is more about money, luxury, women and gambling...
I had no problem the cheer leaders jumping & dancing with the half cover clothes unable to cover even the private part in the big stadium, infront of lakhs of spectators but the way they have been portray reminds me of those girls who were hired to dance in "mujra" in front of the kings and his ancestors in the old times, though I witnessed such custom only from the hindi movies. The radio jockey has already bang my ear with announcement like "more music more cricket". I wish to eat some sleeping pill and sleep to tolerate my cab mates and their aggressive talks on cricket in every 3 hours of office journey.
Well, that's my problem of hating something which looses the root and origin while being meaningless of such amendments. That's what cricket is which has no link to sport now. It has link to politics, gambling, women till the filmistan extending up to the ramp, mingling with the models. I wish the govt and the financers give 2% interest to the rest of the sports. It’s so shameful that India can't even enter the world cup. While the other players who pursue other sports end up their career in the police force, naval force and terminate their career unable to show their talent.
Referring to my own state Manipur, sport is just a break free game for us. There won't be a single boy in a family who doesn't know about football or any kind of game. But we live amidst the guns and grenades devoid of proper diet, clothes and facility and can't grow up to the international level. Seeing the cricketers walking on the ramp and advertising as a brand ambassador agitated more.
Above all the loopholes, I'm very proud of the sport persons from Manipur and NE states. Despite of all the difficulties they face including politics and ignorance by the people here they still shine and show their talent to the world....
This is just a hope, remnant with us for looking ahead in the small state like Manipur where the price of the rice is higher than the price of the bullets...
Disclaimer: This is a specific opinion owe to me...
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Derogatory opinions against Women in article in e-pao.net!!!
Dear E-pao,
This is regarding some of the articles published in e-pao which is intentionally directed to defame the women folk from Manipur & NE, without any scrutiny from the e-pao team.
Well said that e-pao is a public platform and it's the only e-paper from Manipur. It needs to keep up to the expectations of the readers. But the question is - do we have to publish everything regardless of whether it is offensive, derogatory and insulting to a certain section of the society? Since it is called a public platform isn't it our responsibility to check the consequences of such articles?
I would like to know that e-pao team really felt that articles which drags into the issue of live-in relationship, NE girls having an African boyfriend/ non-manipuri boyfriend then ultimately questioning to the morality of women is worth sharing to the readers? Can we dissect some of these articles and think what is the pupose of such articles in terms of knowledge gained?
What is exactly such writer wants to portray the women from NE and Manipur?
From the articles of some of our own famous writers such as Mohen Naorem, Ranjan Yumnam, Deke Tourangba, Mr. Robin, Mr. Gautam and Deepak Yumkhaibam, what I can grasp is that they are trying to map an image of Manipuri & NE women as devoid of any sense of morality. Strangely the question of morality as always is pointed only to women. If such an idea as morality do exist (which many right thinking men and women would find offensive) why is it only a women's prerogative to uphold?
E-pao sends a standard reply to all the contributors stating that the article/ poem/ write up/ contributed will be checked for appropriateness. Is this just a lip-service? Why the pretense of checking article/s for appropriateness when clearly it is for all to see that such a thing is quite a far cry!
Let me just dissect just one article among many such put up in your website- An article by Deke ends up justifying the act of rape and harassment to the NE girls in Delhi with a derogatory comment "if such girls are not rape then who else?" implies to the article is that women should be rape if they wear a short skirt or spaghetti.
All over the world it is agreed that rape is about power and it is quite a regressive idea that women are raped for what they wear. It is however not strange that some men may subscribe to this point of view, what is strange is that such ideas get to be webcasted.
Some articles like that of Deepak Yumkhaibam could be used to point at the way people looked at a cognisable offense so lightly. What he did is both harassment and a cognisable offence for which he could be behind bars. E-pao publishing such an article where a person gleefully describes his offense is shocking!!!
As a reader I would request e-pao team to take some ethical responsibility for the people who are reading this website. There are thousand other readers who do not even know about our culture and customs. If e-pao really feels that it does have a responsibility towards the people who reads and contributes to the site it also have some onus of scrutinizing before publishing the articles.
By saying this I'm not trying to devalue the efforts of the e-pao team. I really appreciate all the efforts by the e-pao team. Thank You.
http://e-pao.net/epSubPageExtractor.asp?src=features.Spotlight_On_Women.Derogatory_opinions_on_women_in_epao_article
This is regarding some of the articles published in e-pao which is intentionally directed to defame the women folk from Manipur & NE, without any scrutiny from the e-pao team.
Well said that e-pao is a public platform and it's the only e-paper from Manipur. It needs to keep up to the expectations of the readers. But the question is - do we have to publish everything regardless of whether it is offensive, derogatory and insulting to a certain section of the society? Since it is called a public platform isn't it our responsibility to check the consequences of such articles?
I would like to know that e-pao team really felt that articles which drags into the issue of live-in relationship, NE girls having an African boyfriend/ non-manipuri boyfriend then ultimately questioning to the morality of women is worth sharing to the readers? Can we dissect some of these articles and think what is the pupose of such articles in terms of knowledge gained?
What is exactly such writer wants to portray the women from NE and Manipur?
From the articles of some of our own famous writers such as Mohen Naorem, Ranjan Yumnam, Deke Tourangba, Mr. Robin, Mr. Gautam and Deepak Yumkhaibam, what I can grasp is that they are trying to map an image of Manipuri & NE women as devoid of any sense of morality. Strangely the question of morality as always is pointed only to women. If such an idea as morality do exist (which many right thinking men and women would find offensive) why is it only a women's prerogative to uphold?
E-pao sends a standard reply to all the contributors stating that the article/ poem/ write up/ contributed will be checked for appropriateness. Is this just a lip-service? Why the pretense of checking article/s for appropriateness when clearly it is for all to see that such a thing is quite a far cry!
Let me just dissect just one article among many such put up in your website- An article by Deke ends up justifying the act of rape and harassment to the NE girls in Delhi with a derogatory comment "if such girls are not rape then who else?" implies to the article is that women should be rape if they wear a short skirt or spaghetti.
All over the world it is agreed that rape is about power and it is quite a regressive idea that women are raped for what they wear. It is however not strange that some men may subscribe to this point of view, what is strange is that such ideas get to be webcasted.
Some articles like that of Deepak Yumkhaibam could be used to point at the way people looked at a cognisable offense so lightly. What he did is both harassment and a cognisable offence for which he could be behind bars. E-pao publishing such an article where a person gleefully describes his offense is shocking!!!
As a reader I would request e-pao team to take some ethical responsibility for the people who are reading this website. There are thousand other readers who do not even know about our culture and customs. If e-pao really feels that it does have a responsibility towards the people who reads and contributes to the site it also have some onus of scrutinizing before publishing the articles.
By saying this I'm not trying to devalue the efforts of the e-pao team. I really appreciate all the efforts by the e-pao team. Thank You.
http://e-pao.net/epSubPageExtractor.asp?src=features.Spotlight_On_Women.Derogatory_opinions_on_women_in_epao_article
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Belong!!
Melancholy nights never leave me alone
Burning me alive in its moonlit
As I tried to wipe off your footprints
On the canvas on my memory…
Wish I can reverse the time to belong to you again..
Burning me alive in its moonlit
As I tried to wipe off your footprints
On the canvas on my memory…
Wish I can reverse the time to belong to you again..
Friday, April 16, 2010
Hey Patients! Be patient with doctors, or else!!!
"The enjoyment of the highest attainable standard of health is one the fundamental rights of every human being without the distinction of race, religion, political belief, economic or social condition"- WHO Constitution
Deplorable Mayang Imphal Hospital
Recent medical scandal involving Dr. Chourjit reminds me of my personnel experience of dealing with the doctors in Manipur. What is in the attitude of the doctors in Manipur is need to be analyzed & rectify to stop further such incidents of death of the patients in the hospitals due to doctor’s negligence.
Should we ask the patients to be patient with their doctors so that doctors attend them in the hospital? If you are from far flung village and you have no X, Y, Z relatives then your life has no value to our doctors. Even consulting a doctor to cure your inflicted body is again a struggle if you don’t possess any branded personality. Villages are deprived of hospitals and even if there is hospital there is no doctor. If there is hospital there are no equipments to cure a disease. Sometime there is no more trace of hospital building.
Whose fault is this anyway?
Is it only the fault of the politicians or the doctors or all of us?
Politicians directly deposit money to upgrade the govt. hospitals in their pockets and doctors are having a good time earning huge bucks in their private clinic in addition to govt. salary. What is the difference between a contractor (thikadar) and a doctor in Manipur?
There is no difference with respect to the fraud, cheat and being a responsible figure who are consuming the public funds to build their own building. They charge fees ranging from Rs. 200 to 500 in their private clinic. Their daily income is not less than 10 to 20 thousand. No doctors are available in the govt. hospitals if you wish to consult them but only in the private clinic in their home and the private hospitals. Why are they holding a govt. post and occupy the post if they wish to earn from the private clinic? In the city like Delhi, doctors who are working in the govt. clinic are not allowed to collaborate with the private hospitals and open their own clinic. Why is our state govt. not implementing such policy in the state to correct such money minded doctors who are blocking the way of upcoming junior doctors too? Also the trend of referring a patient admitted in the govt. hospital to the private clinic to earn more bucks is not new in Manipur.
But who cares and who have ever put up a complaint against such doctors? Here comes the failure of public being so fair and promoting the malpractice of their duty. Why are the public not using the platform of media to explore such doctors so that they can at least prevent repeating such act in future? The reason for us landing today in such terrible administrative break down is because of our negligence and lack of public scrutiny too.
How much they want to earn using their skill and profession is their democratic right and we should not give a damn concern about it. But the malpractice of the profession and misusing their power should be stopped by the govt. to improve the degraded health system in Manipur by implementing new policy. Why are parents in Manipur crazy of medical profession as a career option for their children? Let’s ask few of them- is it only the value of profession which attract them to choose a career or is the way of making money by a doctor attract a parent to become their child a doctor? No doubt, there may be genuine cases of someone really wish to serve the people and obey to the Hippocratic Oath they have taken to practice medicine ethically. Our doctors seem to forget their Hippocratic Oath or humanism on the process making money. Let's sing them again the jingle of the Hippocratic oath....!!!
I must apprecaite the media in Manipur that one of such doctor are exploreed in media glare and it will be an alarming warning to other doctors too who think that they are favoring a patient by treating them but not a duty for them. But public also needs to change how they would react to such incidents to prevent any involuntarily lost to other patients who are residing in the same hospital. Following the same incident, one of my friend told me that Langol view clinic was shut down by the protestors. My friend aunt was in the same hospital undergoing an operation on the same fateful day and she had to transfer in another hospital as the hospital has to shut down. We need to learn the handling of an issue in a legal way whatsoever bad or terrible our legal system is. Lodging a compliant against the concern doctor and submitting memorandum to CM etc are legal way of dealing the issue but it is disheartening sometime while such protests harm another helpless patient.
Sometime what surprises me is our perception.We notice only militants with visible instruments as responsible for destroying our society? What about the teachers in the govt. schools who only collects slary from the govt. but never come to teach while sending their kids to the private schools? What about the engineers who are depositing public money to their pockets? And what about the doctors, bureaucrats & politicians? Aren’t they responsible?
I don’t see any difference between the militants and such public figure in the state. One is a legal body who misuse the system by using their authorized power and another is illegal body who threaten to the life of the public by illegal means. But both are the parallel body equally responsible for destroying the system and they act against the survival of public. Millitants take 2-10% of our money or property. Now lets find out how much our politicians, doctors, engineers are deducting from us..20-50 %.
It is the only public who can stop such parallel govt. both legal and illegal from misusing their power. We should show that no one is above the public force whether they are teacher, lecture, doctor or politicians.
They exist because of the public not vice versa!!
Deplorable Mayang Imphal Hospital
Photo Courtesy: Chaoba Phuritshabam, April, 2008
Recent medical scandal involving Dr. Chourjit reminds me of my personnel experience of dealing with the doctors in Manipur. What is in the attitude of the doctors in Manipur is need to be analyzed & rectify to stop further such incidents of death of the patients in the hospitals due to doctor’s negligence.
Should we ask the patients to be patient with their doctors so that doctors attend them in the hospital? If you are from far flung village and you have no X, Y, Z relatives then your life has no value to our doctors. Even consulting a doctor to cure your inflicted body is again a struggle if you don’t possess any branded personality. Villages are deprived of hospitals and even if there is hospital there is no doctor. If there is hospital there are no equipments to cure a disease. Sometime there is no more trace of hospital building.
Whose fault is this anyway?
Photo Courtesy: Chaoba Phuritshabam, April, 2008
Photo Courtesy: Chaoba Phuritshabam, April, 2008
Politicians directly deposit money to upgrade the govt. hospitals in their pockets and doctors are having a good time earning huge bucks in their private clinic in addition to govt. salary. What is the difference between a contractor (thikadar) and a doctor in Manipur?
There is no difference with respect to the fraud, cheat and being a responsible figure who are consuming the public funds to build their own building. They charge fees ranging from Rs. 200 to 500 in their private clinic. Their daily income is not less than 10 to 20 thousand. No doctors are available in the govt. hospitals if you wish to consult them but only in the private clinic in their home and the private hospitals. Why are they holding a govt. post and occupy the post if they wish to earn from the private clinic? In the city like Delhi, doctors who are working in the govt. clinic are not allowed to collaborate with the private hospitals and open their own clinic. Why is our state govt. not implementing such policy in the state to correct such money minded doctors who are blocking the way of upcoming junior doctors too? Also the trend of referring a patient admitted in the govt. hospital to the private clinic to earn more bucks is not new in Manipur.
But who cares and who have ever put up a complaint against such doctors? Here comes the failure of public being so fair and promoting the malpractice of their duty. Why are the public not using the platform of media to explore such doctors so that they can at least prevent repeating such act in future? The reason for us landing today in such terrible administrative break down is because of our negligence and lack of public scrutiny too.
How much they want to earn using their skill and profession is their democratic right and we should not give a damn concern about it. But the malpractice of the profession and misusing their power should be stopped by the govt. to improve the degraded health system in Manipur by implementing new policy. Why are parents in Manipur crazy of medical profession as a career option for their children? Let’s ask few of them- is it only the value of profession which attract them to choose a career or is the way of making money by a doctor attract a parent to become their child a doctor? No doubt, there may be genuine cases of someone really wish to serve the people and obey to the Hippocratic Oath they have taken to practice medicine ethically. Our doctors seem to forget their Hippocratic Oath or humanism on the process making money. Let's sing them again the jingle of the Hippocratic oath....!!!
I must apprecaite the media in Manipur that one of such doctor are exploreed in media glare and it will be an alarming warning to other doctors too who think that they are favoring a patient by treating them but not a duty for them. But public also needs to change how they would react to such incidents to prevent any involuntarily lost to other patients who are residing in the same hospital. Following the same incident, one of my friend told me that Langol view clinic was shut down by the protestors. My friend aunt was in the same hospital undergoing an operation on the same fateful day and she had to transfer in another hospital as the hospital has to shut down. We need to learn the handling of an issue in a legal way whatsoever bad or terrible our legal system is. Lodging a compliant against the concern doctor and submitting memorandum to CM etc are legal way of dealing the issue but it is disheartening sometime while such protests harm another helpless patient.
Sometime what surprises me is our perception.We notice only militants with visible instruments as responsible for destroying our society? What about the teachers in the govt. schools who only collects slary from the govt. but never come to teach while sending their kids to the private schools? What about the engineers who are depositing public money to their pockets? And what about the doctors, bureaucrats & politicians? Aren’t they responsible?
I don’t see any difference between the militants and such public figure in the state. One is a legal body who misuse the system by using their authorized power and another is illegal body who threaten to the life of the public by illegal means. But both are the parallel body equally responsible for destroying the system and they act against the survival of public. Millitants take 2-10% of our money or property. Now lets find out how much our politicians, doctors, engineers are deducting from us..20-50 %.
It is the only public who can stop such parallel govt. both legal and illegal from misusing their power. We should show that no one is above the public force whether they are teacher, lecture, doctor or politicians.
They exist because of the public not vice versa!!
Saturday, April 3, 2010
Another Lost?
Fearing another lost of teardrops
My eyes wish to close forever
Shying away from its meaning
My lips no longer wear a smile
Today I buried myself deep inside
Haunting from a past wound
Which could never heal
What I’m left with?
Still afraid of another lost?
Another lost
From an empty hand
Holding
Some meager sands
From your footprints?
Another lost
From a heart
Filled with nothingness
I censored myself today
From every dying spirits of you
Against all odds
To cage myself again
With your whims.....
My eyes wish to close forever
Shying away from its meaning
My lips no longer wear a smile
Today I buried myself deep inside
Haunting from a past wound
Which could never heal
What I’m left with?
Still afraid of another lost?
Another lost
From an empty hand
Holding
Some meager sands
From your footprints?
Another lost
From a heart
Filled with nothingness
I censored myself today
From every dying spirits of you
Against all odds
To cage myself again
With your whims.....
Monsterous March......
In a monsterous march a monster came like a merciless hurricane and sway away her life saying that he is lost in her love...there starts his monsterous love story....
What life would look like without having anyone to hurt you? Life become more beautiful while enjoying the pain and suffer....
I never wish to have a life having no one to hurt me and suffering through the pain in a melancholy night ...
The taste of such night where everything seems a question to you without seeking any answer..everything seems an end without any begining.....
I always see the lost of you and a vacuum in heart trying to fill with droplets of tears in such melancholy nights though I found today another meaning without having you besides me to enjoy the taste of a beautiful night filled with pain & hurt....
My heart is no more empty today...It has lots of things to filled with except the love I had for you which I denied to possess anymore...
I'm a proud owner of a heart filled with emptiness, nothingness, hurt, pain and suffer which will never leave me with a vacuum in my life like you left me....
Let the monsterous march revisit...
Let the scorching moonlit burn me every nights,
Let the droplets of tears wet my eyes at its whim
I no longer live unhappily...
What life would look like without having anyone to hurt you? Life become more beautiful while enjoying the pain and suffer....
I never wish to have a life having no one to hurt me and suffering through the pain in a melancholy night ...
The taste of such night where everything seems a question to you without seeking any answer..everything seems an end without any begining.....
I always see the lost of you and a vacuum in heart trying to fill with droplets of tears in such melancholy nights though I found today another meaning without having you besides me to enjoy the taste of a beautiful night filled with pain & hurt....
My heart is no more empty today...It has lots of things to filled with except the love I had for you which I denied to possess anymore...
I'm a proud owner of a heart filled with emptiness, nothingness, hurt, pain and suffer which will never leave me with a vacuum in my life like you left me....
Let the monsterous march revisit...
Let the scorching moonlit burn me every nights,
Let the droplets of tears wet my eyes at its whim
I no longer live unhappily...
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Branded Father???
Heard of branded shirt, jeans, shawl, bed sheet etc. We are crazy about getting cloths from Levis jeans, Lee T-shirts, Addidas shoes, Kashmiri shawl but have anyone heard of the “branded father” and have you owned any?
It seems like a puzzle but it is not something you need to break your head to solve the above question. I was in a chatting mood and have been talking about our first year in the respective colleges and places outside Manipur with my friends. Fortunately, all my friends in Delhi with whom I stayed for 7 years don’t have a “branded father”. So we all get along very well and there was no ego class and luxury show among us. In fact, we all are from different corner of the Manipur though we all are bound with a similar thread of struggling middle class family. We share everything about our parents sacrifice to send us here, financial problems, brothers, sister’s study and all that. Sometime we all laugh together saying that how come we have met here in Delhi though we belong to different place and not even known to each other in Manipur. Now we all are living separately in different places in Delhi & NCR but we stay connected all the time. We still thought we should catch up whenever we have time and we still feel that it is important to wish at the middle of the night with the surprise cake in each other’s birthday though we are too old now to do all these childish act. That’s the bond we have made in all those years of our stay in Delhi with lots of fight, crying and sobbing, especially ME.
I catch up with them last month and we are in mood to pick some people whom we met during college time. I was telling them do you remember their first question when they met us for the first time? Who is your father? What does he do in Manipur? I mean which department and what position? For me, it’s quite new that time to answer such question because what I know about my father is that he is a good father to me and not that whether he is known as a servant or a tycoon in the society. Irrespective of his job I’m always proud of my father and no stupid thought have ever crossed my mind that I wish my father is an AIS officer so that I can feel proud of or Oh shit! I’m feeling so ashamed because he is in such a lower position in his office??? But in some fractions of our society it’s a custom to look down others for the position of his/her father. I won’t generalize all, but we met such fractions here and there tattooing their branded father’s name on their forehead. They will never look into themselves what they are up to but obviously raise their eyebrows saying; Oh you know what my father is a director and my father do this and that. And we called their father as “branded father” like the brand Lee, Levis, Benetton of clothe lines. Once I had just replied to a college friend that how come you are so foolish while your father is so famous and so powerful while she started teasing a friend? I think from that day onwards we haven’t spoken till now. I don’t feel bad but I thought it would caution her from asking the same idiotic question to others and raising her eyebrows. Sadly we live in a society where money, power and fake reputation matters a lot.
We are kind of community where we feel proud of being paid for bribe and having capability to pay bribe. Such attitudes are buried under the skins & skulls of some fractions of people instead of feeling shame and irresponsible. They are responsible for spreading the caste system between the poor, middle and elite class people in Manipur while we are already suffered from the caste system of religion. Let’s take an example. Whose parents are not proud of saying that my son got through into sub inspector job, Commandos, and IRB by paying 10-20 lakhs? Such incapability of people in our society to judge human morality & value begun from people’s craze to own more money, power and one minute fame by paying bucks and using the wrong means. Of course, what all they are racing today is just to have a branded father or to become one in future. No one thinks in the moral ground. In fact, we study moral lessons only in schools without understanding them and we left that after we finish school. That’s the main problem with all of us. That’s the main reason why Manipuris are proud of a “Branded Father”. Thankfully, I didn’t spend my entire childhood in singing moral science in schools as I have escaped from capturing in a missionary schools and following their school of thoughts then furthering the same thoughts in the form of alumni.
This post is dedicated to my long lost friend who is regretted so much after finding out that I don’t own a “Branded Father”. I hope you will enjoy reading it sometime. But of course, I’m happy for you because you are born to a “Branded Father”. And I never miss you for the reason that I don’t owe a friend in you.
It seems like a puzzle but it is not something you need to break your head to solve the above question. I was in a chatting mood and have been talking about our first year in the respective colleges and places outside Manipur with my friends. Fortunately, all my friends in Delhi with whom I stayed for 7 years don’t have a “branded father”. So we all get along very well and there was no ego class and luxury show among us. In fact, we all are from different corner of the Manipur though we all are bound with a similar thread of struggling middle class family. We share everything about our parents sacrifice to send us here, financial problems, brothers, sister’s study and all that. Sometime we all laugh together saying that how come we have met here in Delhi though we belong to different place and not even known to each other in Manipur. Now we all are living separately in different places in Delhi & NCR but we stay connected all the time. We still thought we should catch up whenever we have time and we still feel that it is important to wish at the middle of the night with the surprise cake in each other’s birthday though we are too old now to do all these childish act. That’s the bond we have made in all those years of our stay in Delhi with lots of fight, crying and sobbing, especially ME.
I catch up with them last month and we are in mood to pick some people whom we met during college time. I was telling them do you remember their first question when they met us for the first time? Who is your father? What does he do in Manipur? I mean which department and what position? For me, it’s quite new that time to answer such question because what I know about my father is that he is a good father to me and not that whether he is known as a servant or a tycoon in the society. Irrespective of his job I’m always proud of my father and no stupid thought have ever crossed my mind that I wish my father is an AIS officer so that I can feel proud of or Oh shit! I’m feeling so ashamed because he is in such a lower position in his office??? But in some fractions of our society it’s a custom to look down others for the position of his/her father. I won’t generalize all, but we met such fractions here and there tattooing their branded father’s name on their forehead. They will never look into themselves what they are up to but obviously raise their eyebrows saying; Oh you know what my father is a director and my father do this and that. And we called their father as “branded father” like the brand Lee, Levis, Benetton of clothe lines. Once I had just replied to a college friend that how come you are so foolish while your father is so famous and so powerful while she started teasing a friend? I think from that day onwards we haven’t spoken till now. I don’t feel bad but I thought it would caution her from asking the same idiotic question to others and raising her eyebrows. Sadly we live in a society where money, power and fake reputation matters a lot.
We are kind of community where we feel proud of being paid for bribe and having capability to pay bribe. Such attitudes are buried under the skins & skulls of some fractions of people instead of feeling shame and irresponsible. They are responsible for spreading the caste system between the poor, middle and elite class people in Manipur while we are already suffered from the caste system of religion. Let’s take an example. Whose parents are not proud of saying that my son got through into sub inspector job, Commandos, and IRB by paying 10-20 lakhs? Such incapability of people in our society to judge human morality & value begun from people’s craze to own more money, power and one minute fame by paying bucks and using the wrong means. Of course, what all they are racing today is just to have a branded father or to become one in future. No one thinks in the moral ground. In fact, we study moral lessons only in schools without understanding them and we left that after we finish school. That’s the main problem with all of us. That’s the main reason why Manipuris are proud of a “Branded Father”. Thankfully, I didn’t spend my entire childhood in singing moral science in schools as I have escaped from capturing in a missionary schools and following their school of thoughts then furthering the same thoughts in the form of alumni.
This post is dedicated to my long lost friend who is regretted so much after finding out that I don’t own a “Branded Father”. I hope you will enjoy reading it sometime. But of course, I’m happy for you because you are born to a “Branded Father”. And I never miss you for the reason that I don’t owe a friend in you.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Finally the Section 377 struck my mind.
I was just sitting tired and sipping coffee so that I can at least clearly see the face of the professor teaching in the class. There is no energy left with me to listen and concentrate on something after a long self-digging session in office. It was my first day in family law class. After office I run to attend the class but there was no professor so just passing my time by reading some old sms. Most of my classmates are 40-50 years old. The next man sitting besides me was discussing about the guy/lesbians/bisexuals and section 377. I was trying to convince myself, no argument in the first class. I know it’s a bad habit for me.
But I couldn’t resist anymore. Few words from his big mouth ignite my much provoked mind. He was discussing for a protest against legalization of guy marriage or homosexual marriage and calling them as mentally ill as commented by baba Ramdev. My first question must have shocked him. Why did you marry a woman instead of a man? He answered me what can I marry then?? There starts the argument. We have only three ladies in the whole class as most of ladies opt for the afternoon and morning session. Yes, I’m among the minority in the class. The conversation was quite interesting and I had a nice time arguing with them and later on I was afraid of something. Oh! They must have thought that I’m also seeing a woman and henceforth I’m so much concerned about such issue. They must be thinking that I’m hurt with their words. Oops!! Let it be. Who cares?? That’s what I told myself.
The first gay marriage in Imphal was really a great step taken by them despite of the fact that their family opposed the marriage and separated later on. But why should we care only about how long a marriage last. Even for the marriage among the heterosexuals last less than 24 hrs these days. But the way they were separated was illegal. I don’t know how far Manipur is concerned about the law and its implementation as we are so much bound by norms society. Even after the decriminalization of same sex marriage by the constitution the poor gay couple was separated by filing a case by the parents of the bride. My question goes to the legally bound authority who has accepted the case registered against the married couple. Don’t they have any such updates that such marriages are no more illegal and why should they register a case against those who are willingly agreed to live together? It’s a violation of the sec 14 and 21 of the constitution itself.
We need to change our views on such change in the society. The problem of gay or homosexuals can not be solved by ostracizing them from the society. They existed just like us from the beginning of the human race. Everybody must have watched Mahabharat and it witnessed the existence of the homosexuals from that era. Why should we still have to ignore their existence as a human in our society?
If we keep on protesting against their survival then we are responsible for destroying our own society. I really feel pity for the gay (commonly known as homo in Manipur) having such a terrible life in home. Their emotions are played by some monsters to enjoy their hard earned money. Most of the theatre artist, make-up artist and local designers are run by the gay in Manipur. The Manipuri digital cinema world is survived because of the gay community taking an important role as a backstage artist. We never recognize their inputs in the society but enjoy their show just like they are puppets without a soul. It’s time to accept them to survive in their own without any obstruction from us. If we think deeply they are more responsible citizens of Manipur who are working hard to survive against all the odds and objections from the society instead of picking up gun in hand and involving in extortion & militancy.
Hope our brothers in home can learn some lessons from the gay community for a better and peaceful Manipur.
But I couldn’t resist anymore. Few words from his big mouth ignite my much provoked mind. He was discussing for a protest against legalization of guy marriage or homosexual marriage and calling them as mentally ill as commented by baba Ramdev. My first question must have shocked him. Why did you marry a woman instead of a man? He answered me what can I marry then?? There starts the argument. We have only three ladies in the whole class as most of ladies opt for the afternoon and morning session. Yes, I’m among the minority in the class. The conversation was quite interesting and I had a nice time arguing with them and later on I was afraid of something. Oh! They must have thought that I’m also seeing a woman and henceforth I’m so much concerned about such issue. They must be thinking that I’m hurt with their words. Oops!! Let it be. Who cares?? That’s what I told myself.
The first gay marriage in Imphal was really a great step taken by them despite of the fact that their family opposed the marriage and separated later on. But why should we care only about how long a marriage last. Even for the marriage among the heterosexuals last less than 24 hrs these days. But the way they were separated was illegal. I don’t know how far Manipur is concerned about the law and its implementation as we are so much bound by norms society. Even after the decriminalization of same sex marriage by the constitution the poor gay couple was separated by filing a case by the parents of the bride. My question goes to the legally bound authority who has accepted the case registered against the married couple. Don’t they have any such updates that such marriages are no more illegal and why should they register a case against those who are willingly agreed to live together? It’s a violation of the sec 14 and 21 of the constitution itself.
We need to change our views on such change in the society. The problem of gay or homosexuals can not be solved by ostracizing them from the society. They existed just like us from the beginning of the human race. Everybody must have watched Mahabharat and it witnessed the existence of the homosexuals from that era. Why should we still have to ignore their existence as a human in our society?
If we keep on protesting against their survival then we are responsible for destroying our own society. I really feel pity for the gay (commonly known as homo in Manipur) having such a terrible life in home. Their emotions are played by some monsters to enjoy their hard earned money. Most of the theatre artist, make-up artist and local designers are run by the gay in Manipur. The Manipuri digital cinema world is survived because of the gay community taking an important role as a backstage artist. We never recognize their inputs in the society but enjoy their show just like they are puppets without a soul. It’s time to accept them to survive in their own without any obstruction from us. If we think deeply they are more responsible citizens of Manipur who are working hard to survive against all the odds and objections from the society instead of picking up gun in hand and involving in extortion & militancy.
Hope our brothers in home can learn some lessons from the gay community for a better and peaceful Manipur.
Monday, March 15, 2010
Talk Non-sense!!
Eat money, eat bullet and talk non-sense!!!
This is the only sentence suited for the politicians in Manipur. E-pao news source wrote about Govt. buying of bullet proof BMW car with a side window glass having thickness of 22mm, to protect their precious life while the people are tortured to live beneath the gunpoint of Commandos and the militants. Why are they feeling so insecure from their own comrades? What about the rest of the civilians in the state? I hope not the govt. is going to ask the center for financing citizen’s bullet proof house for a safety life?
Never knew Manipur govt. is so rich to afford to buy BMW bullet proof car to protect the politicians when even the salaried govt. employees are under forceful fasting due to irregular pay in the state. The prices of food touch the highest peak in the sky and there is no source even for eating. We will come in a time where we have to kill each other and eat while our politicians and bureaucrats will talk nonsense and travel in safe in BMW car or Limousine Car from next budget, probably.
My brothers are hardly here from the last week of February but I’m thankful to myself that I have taken the wise decision to bring them here despite of all the odds I had to face. Even they are influence by the society they lived where only money talks, fashion talks, war talks occupied their mind. No one talks about the price hike of food, politicians’ corruption and govt. policy. Even my brothers don’t feel that they belong to middle class family and they have to work hard to overcome the hurdle in their way. Talks about phone, laptop, music system and branded clothes. Sometime I got irritated even after knowing the fact that they are still too young to understand. That’s the environment they used to live where even the kids grown up with the money talks only. They feel you are useless if you don’t have enough money to feed them.
Coming back to the point i.e. BMW of Politicians. Isn’t it the high time citizens or the NGO’s or organizations in Manipur asked the politicians from where the money to buy a BMW reached to them while the proposal to upgrade the 6th pay commission was flatly denied in the assembly by the CM? I was excited when the news of 6th pay commission was highlighted in the Sangai Express. I called up my father in the morning and said at least we will be able to save some money even if brothers will be here in Delhi. But my father warned me don’t expect too much. It’s Manipur. Nothing works here. Not even the laws you are studying now have anything to do with Manipur. So don’t ever dream of coming back to Manipur and work here. Neither can you work in your own nor can you find a job here. Because you will have intervention from all angle. Even your neighbor can plant a grenade in your courtyard. It’s not too difficult to kill you for thousand bucks in your hand. People surrounds with so much of insecurity from all sections so they never think of life, death, dignity, ego, moral etc. We just live like a walking talking machine.
Sometime I felt why we live like this? Here, we can’t live a peaceful life due to daily race in the big city and trouble from every passing humane on the earth. If you think you are frustrated enough with the situation here, where will you go? That’s a big question. You have to live under the sky of bullets in home without any source of income, food and security of life and most importantly you are not bound to anything and no one is liable for your life. We have reached to the heights of the non-sense, non-ethical society from all directions now.
Daily news in the e-pao is just for time pass now and it has become monotonous. It always zeroed in politicians bullshits, news on clarification for killing from the militants and blame game of the organizations and the race of the bundh, strike and protest.
Really we are left with only few options, eat money, eat bullet and talk non-sense like our politicians.
This is the only sentence suited for the politicians in Manipur. E-pao news source wrote about Govt. buying of bullet proof BMW car with a side window glass having thickness of 22mm, to protect their precious life while the people are tortured to live beneath the gunpoint of Commandos and the militants. Why are they feeling so insecure from their own comrades? What about the rest of the civilians in the state? I hope not the govt. is going to ask the center for financing citizen’s bullet proof house for a safety life?
Never knew Manipur govt. is so rich to afford to buy BMW bullet proof car to protect the politicians when even the salaried govt. employees are under forceful fasting due to irregular pay in the state. The prices of food touch the highest peak in the sky and there is no source even for eating. We will come in a time where we have to kill each other and eat while our politicians and bureaucrats will talk nonsense and travel in safe in BMW car or Limousine Car from next budget, probably.
My brothers are hardly here from the last week of February but I’m thankful to myself that I have taken the wise decision to bring them here despite of all the odds I had to face. Even they are influence by the society they lived where only money talks, fashion talks, war talks occupied their mind. No one talks about the price hike of food, politicians’ corruption and govt. policy. Even my brothers don’t feel that they belong to middle class family and they have to work hard to overcome the hurdle in their way. Talks about phone, laptop, music system and branded clothes. Sometime I got irritated even after knowing the fact that they are still too young to understand. That’s the environment they used to live where even the kids grown up with the money talks only. They feel you are useless if you don’t have enough money to feed them.
Coming back to the point i.e. BMW of Politicians. Isn’t it the high time citizens or the NGO’s or organizations in Manipur asked the politicians from where the money to buy a BMW reached to them while the proposal to upgrade the 6th pay commission was flatly denied in the assembly by the CM? I was excited when the news of 6th pay commission was highlighted in the Sangai Express. I called up my father in the morning and said at least we will be able to save some money even if brothers will be here in Delhi. But my father warned me don’t expect too much. It’s Manipur. Nothing works here. Not even the laws you are studying now have anything to do with Manipur. So don’t ever dream of coming back to Manipur and work here. Neither can you work in your own nor can you find a job here. Because you will have intervention from all angle. Even your neighbor can plant a grenade in your courtyard. It’s not too difficult to kill you for thousand bucks in your hand. People surrounds with so much of insecurity from all sections so they never think of life, death, dignity, ego, moral etc. We just live like a walking talking machine.
Sometime I felt why we live like this? Here, we can’t live a peaceful life due to daily race in the big city and trouble from every passing humane on the earth. If you think you are frustrated enough with the situation here, where will you go? That’s a big question. You have to live under the sky of bullets in home without any source of income, food and security of life and most importantly you are not bound to anything and no one is liable for your life. We have reached to the heights of the non-sense, non-ethical society from all directions now.
Daily news in the e-pao is just for time pass now and it has become monotonous. It always zeroed in politicians bullshits, news on clarification for killing from the militants and blame game of the organizations and the race of the bundh, strike and protest.
Really we are left with only few options, eat money, eat bullet and talk non-sense like our politicians.
Monday, March 8, 2010
To the one in Love!!
You waste all that to me, love
For which my soul caged her
Forgetting
The green field
Where the birds sing her hearts out
The fountains
where the soft touch of the water
Tamed the ego of those rocky stones
You, Love
You waste all that to me
Stolen the spring in my life, love
Dreams are too bright to last longer
Hopes are too starry to shine ever
My future cry over in its becoming a past
My spirit stood motionless in sad
Over a past hovering the lies
Oh! You waste all that to me, Love
All my days are gone with the nightly dreams
Dreams awake in the starry night to haunt
Where your footsteps gleams
You waste all that to me, Love
Now I dwelt alone
In the world of death
Where my soul is stagnant tide
No stars would become brighter
No moon would shine more radiant
For a starry dream that just blinks and lost
I rest in the dead bed of flowers
No doubt
Pain never comes again to me now
No doubt
You can't shed tears from my eyes agains
For my soul gives me sigh for a sigh today
All day I shine brighter
Under a sky
Where your starry dreams never comes
Oh! You waste all that to me, Love!!
For which my soul caged her
Forgetting
The green field
Where the birds sing her hearts out
The fountains
where the soft touch of the water
Tamed the ego of those rocky stones
You, Love
You waste all that to me
Stolen the spring in my life, love
Dreams are too bright to last longer
Hopes are too starry to shine ever
My future cry over in its becoming a past
My spirit stood motionless in sad
Over a past hovering the lies
Oh! You waste all that to me, Love
All my days are gone with the nightly dreams
Dreams awake in the starry night to haunt
Where your footsteps gleams
You waste all that to me, Love
Now I dwelt alone
In the world of death
Where my soul is stagnant tide
No stars would become brighter
No moon would shine more radiant
For a starry dream that just blinks and lost
I rest in the dead bed of flowers
No doubt
Pain never comes again to me now
No doubt
You can't shed tears from my eyes agains
For my soul gives me sigh for a sigh today
All day I shine brighter
Under a sky
Where your starry dreams never comes
Oh! You waste all that to me, Love!!
Saturday, February 20, 2010
Between two flags!!
One, three headed
One, a charming chakra
Scramble for me
I, bewildered
I, baffled
Beloved, both
Belonged to both
One, borne
One, nurtured
Frequent, my minds' eye
the flag embellished
with sakok
My thought feebled
at the flags' awaiting
Frequent, my thoughts
the flag embellished
with chakra
My thought feebled
at the flag
I didn't belong to
Mislayed at the warfield
between two flags
I asked all
Who do I belong to
Frequent, my thought
Can I belong to both?
One, borne
One, nurtured
I feared
life's lofty forts
I feared
I couldn't traverse
these chained heights
I feared
the sakok embellished flag
chasing me
with a sword
stating a stranger, I am
Between two flags
Scrambling for me
She is mine
She is mine
they said
Sliced me
Some pieces for one
Some pieces for another
Why the scramble?
Who do I belonged to?
Pacified myself
I, adrift
between two flags
between these two flags
Friday, February 19, 2010
The Miserable Lovers!!
“Restaurants come into public scrutiny once again”.
http://e-pao.net/GP.asp?src=16..190210.feb10
Is it the banning of the restaurants and stopping them to use mobile phones only a solution to clean the society?
Or to make our Manipuri society free from illicit behaviors?
The problem with our society is that we don’t want to give freedom to others and we don’t respect other’s freedom. What make us think that somebody is against the society if he/she found kissing or hugging his/her lover somewhere in the corner of the road? In fact the man-made scrutiny system of our culture is extended even within the bedroom of the married couple.
How come the chain of the dark cabin restaurants builds up in a society which is so suffocating and closes from all the sides to even to breathe the free oxygen? Why did the couples and lovers have to find those dark cabin rooms to meet each other? What are the factors which insist/force them to hide from the public? They are the miserable lovers whose opportunity to express love for each other is only in the dark cabin of the room or only in the corner of the close room beneath the posters of the arousal photographs. It has become a customary law for our society where we only terminate the consequential products and byproducts of a problem but not the root of the cause of such problems.
There are many other ways and means to stop the teenagers to stop committing the wrongful acts such as child marriage, early pregnancy and early elopement. Manipur is listed in no. 1 for child marriage and sexual abuse. But why such problems occurred in such a closed society? If we really wish to eradicate such problems then we need to educate them so that they can realize of their wrongful acts and rectify them.
Let it be drug abuse or the sexual abuse in the name of dating, which is very much common in our society now. Who can stop such kids from committing whatever they want to do? Isn’t it the fault of the society which prevent them freedom to roam around in the open public and letting them to live their life freely?
What else we can achieve after closing such restaurants? Are we going to give them the freedom to dating in the public space as all normal human society does? Why have we started thinking that dating as an illicit behavior in our society? I don’t think we would be born here and human race would have ended century back if our forefathers haven’t dated and married to each other. Giving freedom to the youngsters to live their own life and lean is not about following the western culture and just abandoning our culture. It is more about preserving the human norms of relations and emotions. If we started treating that the romantic relations between a girl and boy is illicit then the culture of marriage is a crime. Henceforth humane race should have ended years ago.
Let’s take an example of drug/alcohol abuse. We can see that Manipuri society especially our meitie society is famous for husbands abusing his wife after consuming alcohol. Is it really because of alcohol? Let’s find out now what kind of chemical entity is there which instigates a man to beat his wife? As far as scientific discovery is concerned no chemical entity is there which can boost a man’s capability to overpower physically his wife after drinking. Problem is with the psychology of the human and not with the alcohol. Why have we launched so much of restriction against ourselves from eating, drinking and living freely? Have we ever heard of any country where alcohol is not available and there happens no drug abuse? But the question is that why we are on top regarding such problems? The only answer is the close and suffocating society where people drink, eat and make love out of suffocation, frustration, insult, humiliation and fear of the society, which are out of norm and race due to the unbearable restriction around us.
It’s a high time we recheck, revisit and rectify the system of resistance against any kind of abuse by some fraction of the culture preservers which can only create tension in the society. Unfortunately we live in a society where people are ready to humiliate you and ostracize from the public all the time. Instead of referring a drug addict in rehabilitation center he would be ostracized in front of all and send them to police custody. In the police custody again they have to face the human abuse and insults. How could a person who has lost control over his own brain rectify without proper guiding? So far how many of them we have saved from drug abuse or any kind of wrongful activity by insulting, humiliating and abusing? We found them more vulnerable to the drugs and any other means to escape self from such abuse by the society.
My own locality is filled with drug addicts and at least once in a month there is drama of humiliation of drug addicts in the school playground. But till now I have never found that they have stopped taking drugs? Had we sent them in a rehabilitation center instead of humiliating them in the public, they could have stopped taking drugs because of our sympathy and humanity but they can never be better because of humiliation, insult and abuse.
Sometime I really feel jealous of the time where our grandparents narrate about the likon-sanaba in the full moon night and how their lovers come to meet in their house. Every home was facilitated with Ningol-ka (the room for unmarried ladies) in a home where the unmarried ladies can meet their lovers in their house in the presence of their family members. If this is the situation & culture in the present Manipur, I hope there won’t be any such relations so called as illicit relations and behaviors. Of course, no kid would ever dare to keep the photographs which can aroused their in their wall.
I wish we return to that age where our forefathers lived freely. For a change and oxygenated culture and tradition. Also, it is better to maintain those systems in our society which we have overlooked long time (for the sake of what?), for a better society free from organizations and their unfaithful agendas.
We are too fed of home made Sive-Sena Groups or culture preservers. We need life free from culture & traditions which is against our survival.
http://e-pao.net/GP.asp?src=16..190210.feb10
Is it the banning of the restaurants and stopping them to use mobile phones only a solution to clean the society?
Or to make our Manipuri society free from illicit behaviors?
The problem with our society is that we don’t want to give freedom to others and we don’t respect other’s freedom. What make us think that somebody is against the society if he/she found kissing or hugging his/her lover somewhere in the corner of the road? In fact the man-made scrutiny system of our culture is extended even within the bedroom of the married couple.
How come the chain of the dark cabin restaurants builds up in a society which is so suffocating and closes from all the sides to even to breathe the free oxygen? Why did the couples and lovers have to find those dark cabin rooms to meet each other? What are the factors which insist/force them to hide from the public? They are the miserable lovers whose opportunity to express love for each other is only in the dark cabin of the room or only in the corner of the close room beneath the posters of the arousal photographs. It has become a customary law for our society where we only terminate the consequential products and byproducts of a problem but not the root of the cause of such problems.
There are many other ways and means to stop the teenagers to stop committing the wrongful acts such as child marriage, early pregnancy and early elopement. Manipur is listed in no. 1 for child marriage and sexual abuse. But why such problems occurred in such a closed society? If we really wish to eradicate such problems then we need to educate them so that they can realize of their wrongful acts and rectify them.
Let it be drug abuse or the sexual abuse in the name of dating, which is very much common in our society now. Who can stop such kids from committing whatever they want to do? Isn’t it the fault of the society which prevent them freedom to roam around in the open public and letting them to live their life freely?
What else we can achieve after closing such restaurants? Are we going to give them the freedom to dating in the public space as all normal human society does? Why have we started thinking that dating as an illicit behavior in our society? I don’t think we would be born here and human race would have ended century back if our forefathers haven’t dated and married to each other. Giving freedom to the youngsters to live their own life and lean is not about following the western culture and just abandoning our culture. It is more about preserving the human norms of relations and emotions. If we started treating that the romantic relations between a girl and boy is illicit then the culture of marriage is a crime. Henceforth humane race should have ended years ago.
Let’s take an example of drug/alcohol abuse. We can see that Manipuri society especially our meitie society is famous for husbands abusing his wife after consuming alcohol. Is it really because of alcohol? Let’s find out now what kind of chemical entity is there which instigates a man to beat his wife? As far as scientific discovery is concerned no chemical entity is there which can boost a man’s capability to overpower physically his wife after drinking. Problem is with the psychology of the human and not with the alcohol. Why have we launched so much of restriction against ourselves from eating, drinking and living freely? Have we ever heard of any country where alcohol is not available and there happens no drug abuse? But the question is that why we are on top regarding such problems? The only answer is the close and suffocating society where people drink, eat and make love out of suffocation, frustration, insult, humiliation and fear of the society, which are out of norm and race due to the unbearable restriction around us.
It’s a high time we recheck, revisit and rectify the system of resistance against any kind of abuse by some fraction of the culture preservers which can only create tension in the society. Unfortunately we live in a society where people are ready to humiliate you and ostracize from the public all the time. Instead of referring a drug addict in rehabilitation center he would be ostracized in front of all and send them to police custody. In the police custody again they have to face the human abuse and insults. How could a person who has lost control over his own brain rectify without proper guiding? So far how many of them we have saved from drug abuse or any kind of wrongful activity by insulting, humiliating and abusing? We found them more vulnerable to the drugs and any other means to escape self from such abuse by the society.
My own locality is filled with drug addicts and at least once in a month there is drama of humiliation of drug addicts in the school playground. But till now I have never found that they have stopped taking drugs? Had we sent them in a rehabilitation center instead of humiliating them in the public, they could have stopped taking drugs because of our sympathy and humanity but they can never be better because of humiliation, insult and abuse.
Sometime I really feel jealous of the time where our grandparents narrate about the likon-sanaba in the full moon night and how their lovers come to meet in their house. Every home was facilitated with Ningol-ka (the room for unmarried ladies) in a home where the unmarried ladies can meet their lovers in their house in the presence of their family members. If this is the situation & culture in the present Manipur, I hope there won’t be any such relations so called as illicit relations and behaviors. Of course, no kid would ever dare to keep the photographs which can aroused their in their wall.
I wish we return to that age where our forefathers lived freely. For a change and oxygenated culture and tradition. Also, it is better to maintain those systems in our society which we have overlooked long time (for the sake of what?), for a better society free from organizations and their unfaithful agendas.
We are too fed of home made Sive-Sena Groups or culture preservers. We need life free from culture & traditions which is against our survival.
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